Dec 20, 2023
This is a really important concept to contemplate and to
consider in your life. In the most basic sense, so many people are
out there trying to do good, but they’re doing it from a
consciousness of fear, of separation, or of projection. It’s like
an unhealed healer, or an angry activist. This is the key here.
They’ve been wounded on some level early on in their life.
That core wound really is a core initiation, and it really is
pointing them in the direction of where they are meant to get
stronger and ultimately make an impact in their life or in the
greater world.
For example, let’s say you were abused as a child, and you grow
up having such pain around any form of violence or abuse. Your
reaction to it is anger, sadness, bitterness, contempt towards
those that perpetrate it, and you have very little, to no,
compassion for those that are so caught in their own darkness that
they would perpetrate such violence.
You’re still the wounded little child that now just perhaps
inhabits an adult body. In all kinds of ways, it’s made you feel
like a victim, and perhaps you’ve then put a mask on top of that,
because, in many cases, the last thing an abused person wants to
admit is that they’re a victim. So you might put a mask on top of
that to try to act independent and to be strong. You might have
tried to compensate by building up these superstructures of your
ego that made you actually more separate from others, more distant,
more arrogant, elitist, self-righteous, any or all of these
qualities.
When we embrace these parts of us that we’re projecting outside
of us (the “bad capitalist”, the “bad politician”, the “bad
lawyers”, the “bad perpetrators” …or even just in our own family,
“the bad parents”, etc.), when we embrace those things within
ourselves, now we have real wisdom. We have real power, and we are
a healing agency as we move back out into the world.
If we don’t embrace those, we often are driven to try to stamp
out or get rid of those things in the world, whether it’s in our
family, in our business, or in the larger global culture, and we
become a do-gooder. We enact movements and strategies and practices
or legislature, laws, and we wonder why we’ve been doing that over
and over again and it doesn’t change things.
When you look at where real change starts to happen, real
evolution, real growth, it’s because someone somewhere caught this
vision, and they became less focused on the problem and more
focused on the vision. They stopped merely trying to save the
world, and tdecided to start serving the emerging possibility, the
emerging vision, and they worked on themselves. It’s the difference
between a Malcolm X before his transition, and a Martin Luther
King, Jr.
This is what you must do. You must look at that and notice where
you’re fighting and resisting – being do-gooders – and where you’re
actually creating more pain and more problems in your wake, if not
for others, then for yourself. You want to take full responsibility
for your emotions, your pain, and your projections, and recognize
that real transformation is not about setting things right, but
about seeing things rightly.
It is the consciousness of wholeness that heals, and when you
can see through the appearance of the victims and the victimizers
to the truth, to the true principle – the true vision of
possibility - then both victim and victimizer are healed and become
servants of this higher possibility.
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